First of all, I have to say that the BEST WEBSITE I’ve ever found that covers things like GD and pregnancy in overweight moms is right here, authored by K-mom. I referenced it a lot when pregnant with Gray and I find myself telling other people about it, too, because it is so comprehensive. So if you want a more detailed discussion than what I’m about to offer you, PLEASE go and check her out.
OK, so basically, my pancreas cannot produce enough insulin during pregnancy. This leads to mood swings, highs and lows (like sugar crashes), and weight gain. For me, it also felt like my limbs were really heavy … like I was walking underwater … and I was hungry ALL THE TIME. Also? C-R-A-B-B-Y. But aren’t all pregnant women crabby? (hee)
Developing GD in pregnancy can lead to complications for the fetus. The key word is CAN, not ALWAYS WILL. That’s a big distinction, in my opinion. Babies born to moms who have GD often have low blood sugar at birth, leading them to be observed in the nursery for a time. Those born with low sugar also have to have formula right away so they can get their sugars regulated (these babies are not born diabetic; it’s just an adjustment for them to have to control their OWN blood sugar levels at first). The can develop jaundice or have low calcium levels. Some have disproportionately large shoulders which makes passing through the birth canal difficult, if not impossible. GD can also affect lung maturity, especially in boys. And finally, the placenta begins to break down more quickly in moms who have GD. So most OBs will want me to deliver as close to, but not past, 40w as possible. And, as I learned Monday morning, after 32 weeks, there is a chance of stillbirth.
GD can usually (again, usually not always) be controlled with diet and (light) exercise. This is what I managed to do with Grayson, so I have had high hopes for this baby as well. If I cannot keep my numbers around where they should be, I’ll have to start injecting myself with insulin daily in addition to the diet and exercise. Let’s just not think about that, ok? Power of positive thinking! After a few days of taking my numbers, I’ll have a good sense of what foods I can eat and what I can’t … what spikes my numbers and how to adjust my diet to get them steady.
GD almost always goes away after delivery. This happened with Grayson and I assume it’ll happen again with bob. I don’t have diabetes when I’m not pregnant. I’ll be at a higher risk for developing Type II diabetes, but I was already at risk due to family history, so really no big surprise there. Pregnancy apparently just puts such a huge strain on my system … which is interesting, because I don’t FEEL bad, not really. I’m all belly, all out in front. You see me from the back? You’d never know I was pregnant. Then I turn around and pop your eye out because my belly is ginormous.
With GD, I have to eat six times a day. This is harder than you would think. But I also have to test my blood sugar 4 times a day and this is as big of a pain as it sounds. (if you’re squeamish, skip to the next paragraph). I have a little darty needle thing and I prick my finger to get a drop of blood. I put it on a test strip and put the strip in the meter. The meter tells me what my number is. My numbers are supposed to be in a certain range, every time. (About or below 95 for fasting; about or below 120 after meals). I have to do this when I first wake up (fasting), and again after my three big meals, b’fast, lunch, and dinner. The finger prick really doesn’t hurt; the needle is so small. It’s just a tiny drop of blood and then it’s done. But by the end of 7 weeks (or longer), my fingers will be beat up and sore. There’s just no help for that. And if I go on insulin, I may have to take my numbers as much as 6 times a day. A one month prescription for the lancets and test strips cost me $50.
I have to follow a modified South Beach Diet diet, basically. I watch my carb intake and balance it with proteins and fats. Once you learn how to do this, it’s really easy. And sugar free jello is a “free food” meaning I can eat it as much as I want, since it only has 10 calories and ZERO carbs. So whenever I’m craving a sweet treat, that’s my “go to” food. For those who are curious, I have to stay around 15 carbs for snacks and breakfast, 30 for lunch, and 45 for dinner. Lunch and dinner are interchangeable.
So that’s GD in a nutshell. Questions? Comments? Problems, thoughts, concerns, clarifications? I don’t pretend I’m an expert on this, so if anything is factually incorrect, please let me know.
January 14, 2009 at 7:47 am
Limbs moving underwater…hmmm…I sort of feel like that now… and I’m not pregnant. (Voices in my head, go AWAY!!!)
My finger tips hurt in memory and sympathy for you. Here’s hoping that you can control your blood sugars without added insulin.
January 14, 2009 at 8:01 am
Wow. You certainly know what you’re talking about. And I don’t think that the “health professional” realizes how much you know and how to take care of yourself. I’m sure they see a lot of non-compliant patients…but they shouldn’t assume you are going to be one yourself.
GO YOU!!!
January 14, 2009 at 8:22 am
pardon me while I get on my soapbox for a second…
There is no way of knowing if bob will be one of the babies not effected by GD or if he will be one of the ones with serious complications. Why not do everything you can do to prevent him from having the serious complications?
You never know which hand you have drawn. Just because you didn’t have complications with G doesn’t mean that you won’t have complications with bob.
Trust me, the inconvenience of waiting an hour at the drs office, testing your blood sugars, eating a special diet, and the $35 copay is nothing compared to what bob (and you) could go through if he has complications.
If the diet alone doesn’t work, please follow the drs instructions. I don’t want you to go through any of the sick baby stuff I have been through.
stepping off the soapbox now…
January 14, 2009 at 8:54 am
i agree with elizabeth that you never know, and of course the health of your baby should come before anything, etc… but i also agree with just jiff, and i think most doctors DO assume that their patients don’t listen, are incompetant, and don’t follow their instructions – and i’m sure they assume that for good reason, because i know several people first hand who are idiots when it comes to their own health. what sucks is that for someone like you, who listens / learns / follows dr’s instructions, you’re still treated like someone who doesn’t, because the doctors have to cover all their bases.
i don’t know if it’s part of the normal program already, but i’d totally record every number along with what you’re eating & bring the papers w/you to the next appt, so you can “prove” to the dr the that you’re proactive about this and taking it seriously. obviously, if they still feel you need additional meds or whatever, they are the ones who would know etc. but i think a lot of us don’t get the benefit of the doubt at first until we “earn” it from our health professionals.
good luck. the finger pricks sound crappy.
January 14, 2009 at 12:15 pm
First, I heart your new header photo. That is one photogenic kid.
Second, GD sounds like a HUGE PITA, but if you managed it well once, I’m sure you’ll do a great job again.
Third, you must stop by today and see the totally cute photo I have up of Miles. You may go into labor immediately. It is of that caliber of cuteness.
January 14, 2009 at 12:22 pm
Moo, I’m glad that you know a lot about GD having been through it before, but as others have said (not to scare you or tell you what to do!), but personally I would rather go through any “hell” necessary to try and ensure that bob is wholly healthy and happy and that there are no complications with delivery or anytime after.
I’ll be thinking of you, and wishing you all the very best EVERY day!! =)
January 14, 2009 at 9:36 pm
Y’know, if it comes to it…. the shots, while no freakin’ party, are totally do-able. The needles are teeny and ya just pop em in.
Not as bad as ya might think.
January 16, 2009 at 9:35 pm
I really hope your GD works out to be very mellow!! I had no idea it had that many ramifications. It sounds like you know the ins and outs and how to control it.
January 17, 2009 at 6:15 pm
So, given this info…what have you decided on your water birth?